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Furk wrote: @Pyro: Hey man, I have to disagree and I find a problem how you are approaching fitspo’s challenges. The girl doesn't need to be broken down or shown her place. She has identified something that potentially holds her back and is looking for ways to reach her goals in spite of this, thus she came to people experienced and knowledgeable about the subject, asking for advice and direction.
I see no problem with wanting to broaden your knowledge and checking whether an idea/solution will help and is advisable. You don’t need to scorn her to motivate her, because it seems you were aiming for motivation in your post, but you approached it incorrectly. It feels like you are amping yourself up more than her. I didn't expect that type of attack from a moderator towards a newbie member. As for Jordan Belfort, or (“Leanardo De Caprio in Wolf of Wall Street” as you put it), I find it difficult to see how you cannot find him inspiring to some extent. Belfort found creative solutions (albeit morally questionable) to accomplish his goals and further himself. He kept pushing himself to accomplish more and more, never satisfied – always hungry. Doesn't this sound familiar? I’m surprised not more people can relate to this. The drug chasing was just one of his pleasures and addictions; it doesn't make him hollow because he has so much cash that he can blow boat loads on recreational drugs. He wasn't given everything on a platter, and you’ll find a lot of celebrities and movie stars also had tremendous struggle to achieve their status – it’s what they do with once they get there that separates groups. As for pleasures: don’t we also find certain pleasures and rewards in lifting and sculpting our bodies? Strength, aesthetics, sheer size, endorphin release, the pump, attention- c’mon, there is satisfaction next to the sacrifices and effort you put into working out.
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