Does your GF/Wife know you use steroids??

Just out of curiosity, does your girlfriend/wife know you use steroids or do you keep it secret? It will be interesting to see what comes up...

My ex knew I was using, she was not 100% in favor of it but she knew. My new girlfriend does not know I use steroids. I am finished with my current cycle and still have to do PCT (on the 4 week waiting period to PCT). I still have to think how I am going to tell her this. I am in no big hurry to tell her though; we are only together for like a month now so things are pretty fresh still.

My wife knows and she uses herself! Makes life a lot easier.

haha my girlfriends come and go to quickly for me to worry about even telling em, funny thing is my mom knows that im gonna be using gear, she isnt stoked about it but she supports me (since i wanna compete in physique comps) so im glad, my pops on the other hand knows nothing haha

My wife knows everything and supports me 100%, why lie to your best friend. It also helps if anything goes pear shaped she knows all I'm using and what to do incase of emergency. An open relationship about everything including fantasies etc keeps the relationship free of deceit,been with my wife 11 years now since I was 17.

With you on that one 100 cement Koe007!

Whole family knows

Wife know. Support. Me 100%. She also pins me...

you lucky bastards!

My mrs knows about it and is really happy for me to do it as she understands that it is the only way that I will be able to compete and keep up in the world of bb. Throughout my first cycle she use to do my injections for me. I firmly believe that you need to be honest with your partner as they are going through these mood swings with you but also helps them to be more understanding of what you going through

Wayne wrote: you lucky bastards!

Bro,u have a child with the woman,u love her and u don't tell her what u using...brave move...I would never hide that cos as soon as she finds out u are fucked

DJ wrote:

Wayne wrote: you lucky bastards!

Bro,u have a child with the woman,u love her and u don't tell her what u using...brave move...I would never hide that cos as soon as she finds out u are fucked

Dude, The woman is a nightmare...lol...and actually I did tell her, the reason I called u guys lucky is cos you guys are supported. I have no support, whatsoever...in fact, its just another reason or ammo in her arsnal to "be-rate" me...

Best to say we dont have the best of relationships, but I have kids so I bite the bullet cos i cant live without them!

Yeah, you guys are lucky to have someone that supports you through this. Some people look down on steroid users as if your a crack junkie or something. I will still decide if I will tell my new gf. If I think that things will get really serious and she might be the one I will definitely tell her but until then she need not know.

The next woman that wants to seriously be with me must except that I will be using steroids from time to time otherwise, sorry babe... bye bye!! Coz I aint gana stop my dream for a woman or anyone. This is something I want and the woman that wants to be with me must accept that just as she must accept the fact that my hair is black. Its part of who I am.

AVR, How old are you? If you dont mind me asking?

Honesty should be a fundmental of any successful relationship. When I first started using steroids I used to initially hide it from my girlfriends. Inevitably the truth always eventually comes out and this just leads to more shit as it develops trust issues because of all that time spent keeping it secret. I learned the hard way, now it is part of who I am and I openly tell anyone that is interested including my entire family.

I am really grateful for documentary films like "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" that puts steroid use into perspective and provides an objective view to educate the ignorant masses. I highly recommend it for those people that blame steroids for teen suicides & columbine type massecres instead of alcohol, drugs and mental disorders.

One of the first things I always told my new GF's were that I expect total honesty and I always promised to be honest in return, so I think it's only fair for your partner to know what you do. I can also promise you that it is allot easier for someone to accept your steroid usage if you tell them early in the relationship.

Having a happy relationship is far more important to me than using steroids, so if I have to stop using steroids, I will.
In fact, I have stopped a cycle before and stayed off for two years so that I could focus more on the important things in life and I'm happy I made that decision.

I'm not the kind of person that openly speak about my steroid usage and I'm not going to tell the rest of my family or friends any time soon, they don't have to know.

Sure my wife knows and supports me too! my wife is not into the bodybuilding lifestyle so she didn’t understand why I wanted to pin. Thing that I found is that there is allot of education you need to do with them because at first they are not 100% onboard with it, so as soon as you point out to them how you are using and what you are using and inform them they understand, and don’t try to bullshit them because carma is a bitch when she finds out! be upfront and be responsible!

@Wayne, I will be 33 in November so no, I am not that young if that was whet you were wondering. I came out of a 7 year relationship and my ex knew I was using steroids, well I only used one cycle while we were together. We have a child together and decided that we are not going to stay together just for the sake of the kid if we don’t get along. It would be unfair to both of us and to our child. We are now very good friends and I support my child 100% with everything. We are much better friends than what we partners.

When we split up I thought hard about what I want in all aspects of life and one of them is bodybuilding. I always wanted to do it and when we split I decided that this would be one of the important things to do as it would now be much easier since I live alone.

The thing is with the new gf, I don’t know how long I want to be with her, things are very casual between us. I don’t really feel ready for a serious relationship yet and she knows this so telling her this and then breaking up with her in a month or two would only give her something bad to tell about me afterwards.

Like I said, if I feel different about her in the near future I’ll tell her otherwise I keep it to myself. But ms future will definitely know.

lol... feels like I'm sharing my life story with a bunch of dudes on a forum... feels good to talk about it though!

well if you not serious enough then it doesnt matter if you tell her or not i guess. if it bugs you that she doesnt know then tell her and let the chips fall where they may.

AvR wrote: @Wayne, I will be 33 in November so no, I am not that young if that was whet you were wondering. I came out of a 7 year relationship and my ex knew I was using steroids, well I only used one cycle while we were together. We have a child together and decided that we are not going to stay together just for the sake of the kid if we don’t get along. It would be unfair to both of us and to our child. We are now very good friends and I support my child 100% with everything. We are much better friends than what we partners.

When we split up I thought hard about what I want in all aspects of life and one of them is bodybuilding. I always wanted to do it and when we split I decided that this would be one of the important things to do as it would now be much easier since I live alone.

The thing is with the new gf, I don’t know how long I want to be with her, things are very casual between us. I don’t really feel ready for a serious relationship yet and she knows this so telling her this and then breaking up with her in a month or two would only give her something bad to tell about me afterwards.

Like I said, if I feel different about her in the near future I’ll tell her otherwise I keep it to myself. But ms future will definitely know.

wow....well, I am with my wife for 5years now and have not been able to walk away cos I cant stand not coming home and seeing my kids. We dont get along at all...totally different morals and ethical values...totally different outlook on life and what life should be about...She is all about money and havin the best of the best and spending...whereas I would prefer contentment and routine in living. Nothin extravagant...One day the trigger has too be pulled though, and I hope its not too messy cos she has told me many times that she would do everything she can to stop me from seeing my gals...

Lol, does feel good letting it out hey...

Wow deep stuff there Wayne.
My mom did that with my brother and I prevented us seeing my dad and I tell you its the worst thing they do, its usually selfish and self centred people who do that, im sorry to say that about her but using kids as a tool in your own personal battles is wrong. It only hurts the kids in the end.
I think if you love your kids though try your level best to workout your issues(whether counselling, seminars, anything), divorce to me is not the answer, I really took my marriage vow seriously and would only leave in the case of infidelity.

On topic: My whole family don't know im on juice, although its pretty obvious, I agree with admin they don't need to know, but my wife and training partner know everything.

Tremere wrote: Wife know. Support. Me 100%. She also pins me...

Ditto

Wayne wrote:
wow....well, I am with my wife for 5years now and have not been able to walk away cos I cant stand not coming home and seeing my kids. We dont get along at all...totally different morals and ethical values...totally different outlook on life and what life should be about...She is all about money and havin the best of the best and spending...whereas I would prefer contentment and routine in living. Nothin extravagant...One day the trigger has too be pulled though, and I hope its not too messy cos she has told me many times that she would do everything she can to stop me from seeing my gals...

Lol, does feel good letting it out hey...

And your new test levels doesn't help much does it brother?

Koe007 wrote: Wow deep stuff there Wayne.
My mom did that with my brother and I prevented us seeing my dad and I tell you its the worst thing they do, its usually selfish and self centred people who do that, im sorry to say that about her but using kids as a tool in your own personal battles is wrong. It only hurts the kids in the end.
I think if you love your kids though try your level best to workout your issues(whether counselling, seminars, anything), divorce to me is not the answer, I really took my marriage vow seriously and would only leave in the case of infidelity.

On topic: My whole family don't know im on juice, although its pretty obvious, I agree with admin they don't need to know, but my wife and training partner know everything.

Dude, i have been with her to a clinical shrink, she left after 3months saying that the shrink was taking my part! What more can i do?