Broke up after pct-heart sore-muscle loss

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31 Dec 2014 22:44 #179087 by Lex
Thank u guys for all the support thanks everyone I really appreciate it...
Good thing is my eating hasn't changed haha I love my diet anyway and I love to eat so atleast I'm still killing that

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31 Dec 2014 23:17 #179091 by Mason Might
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Bud about the watch... They do that. Things you've given them they want you to take back. Just take it and try erase all memory of her.

Women are nice to look at and amazing to hold. But once you've fallen, you're screwed mate.
They way you describe loving her more than yourself is pretty accurate of how it goes. we've all been there, all been broken down but hay!? You got to tear a muscle for it to come back bigger and stronger right? Same thing here bud.

When it hurts... That's when i start counting, because that's when it starts to count.
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31 Dec 2014 23:42 #179094 by Lex
Thanks mason might I get what u mean... When I see her should I just be like hey thanks for my watch take care bye and walk away because I knw her she would want to make convo

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31 Dec 2014 23:44 #179095 by Mason Might
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That's it bud, don't give her any more power over you.

When it hurts... That's when i start counting, because that's when it starts to count.

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01 Jan 2015 01:19 #179098 by Lex
Happy new year guys thanks for all the advice again

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01 Jan 2015 06:10 - 01 Jan 2015 06:11 #179099 by admin
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Bro, take the watch back, but she can drop it off somewhere and you can pick it up when you're ready. See why I said no contact, it makes it allot harder, doesn't it?
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01 Jan 2015 10:03 #179101 by Lex
Yes admin I completely agree with you I told her drop it off at my office on the 5th leave it with my P.A but she's insisting on "giving It to me in person...haha she messaged me for New Years "happy new hear❤️ I love you"
I just wanna go train now :( but it's a stupid public holiday and all virgin actives are closed

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01 Jan 2015 10:03 #179102 by Lex
Yes admin I completely agree with you I told her drop it off at my office on the 5th leave it with my P.A but she's insisting on "giving It to me in person...haha she messaged me for New Years "happy new year❤️ I love you"
I just wanna go train now :( but it's a stupid public holiday and all virgin actives are closed

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01 Jan 2015 12:24 #179105 by 00pump
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admin wrote: Bro, take the watch back, but she can drop it off somewhere and you can pick it up when you're ready. See why I said no contact, it makes it allot harder, doesn't it?


Dude listen to what admin is saying.. you need no contact.. this is an extremely difficult time because of emotions.. both of you will not be thinking clear now..

One of those 4 year relationships I was in, I had a chance to fix it when all hope was gone.. guess what, because I stopped all contact I realised the relationship was actually not healthy and boy oh boy am I happy it ended now as I'm married to an amazing woman..

Getting back together I would have had to walk on egg shells and again the relationship would have taken strain..

My wife and I hardly ever fight ... maybe 5 nubutes in a week, and right after it, it's over..

Like admin said in an earlier post, it will come naturally with the right person.

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01 Jan 2015 14:11 - 01 Jan 2015 14:13 #179108 by Chem1
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The girl is emotionally confused. First she fell out love and broke up with you now she's "subtly" trying to get back together. Emotionally confused people, especially girls in relationships, are very hard to work with because they flipflop from one thing to another and in-turn are a big risk of fucking with you every single time. Younger girls often do this becuase they are still trying to find themselves and figure stuff out. You can't really blame them but you still need to look out for yourself. She certainly is.
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01 Jan 2015 14:34 #179111 by Mason Might
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I'm with Chem1, the younger ones tend to not have a clue what they want themselves.

Let your PA deal with her. No need to rub salt in the wound by seeing her or letting her try explain things to you.

I do not think she wants to get back together, but I do think she needs some crazy pills. Next time she sends a message like that tell her to lie in the bed she made...

When it hurts... That's when i start counting, because that's when it starts to count.
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01 Jan 2015 21:24 #179163 by Lex
Thanks mason might, chem1, 00pump and everyone else... Ja she really is lost when we broke up she said and I quote "I love you, I always will..I just fell outta love with you, like the feeling died off a while back and I just felt in a comfort zone with you that's why I always thought twice"
Like shit I feel so hurt and yet the same time happy like I will always love her nd care for her maybe I wasn't the right guy...
Yes I told my PA to sort out everything for me I really don't have time for much distractions I reopen on Monday so I'll be a lot more occupied with work...
On the plus side my training is almost back up to scratch I hit a solid sesh today and feel amazing...diets good I kinda had ice cream and choclates today but I really am not looking to diet down crazy because my weight already dropped and a cheat here or there won't really hurt me especially when I'm recovering emotionally

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02 Jan 2015 08:44 #179173 by Liftmeister
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I came out of a 5 year marriage last year april which made me stop training because of some medical conditions that arose from it. I was with this person for 8 years in total. All I can say is f#ck that sh!t guy. If it didn't work out then work yourself throughout and let go,it gets easier and when it does this woman will be just another memory, its getting through this which is the challenge though but my motto is 'As long as im not dead ill still be good'. just 1 thing I regret which I actually had no control over is I had to stop training, don't for WHATEVER reason stop training. that's the 1 thing that's going to keep you sane throughout this time. Its a new year and time to do some new sh1t lol. Chin up bro...the women will come swooming in TRUST me. For now go get that body you've always wanted
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02 Jan 2015 10:05 #179174 by Lex
Thanks lifmiester like I'm holding onto something that's not really there anymore and I don't even knw why I am I need to let go haha ok I won't lie we spilt up last yr jan as well and there's a 24hr gym in my area thank God for that because I had an anxiety attack like 11pm one night so I just jumped into the car with my pjs and went to train and it helped so much

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08 Jan 2015 19:40 #179310 by Mason Might
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How's it going bud? Training hard I hope?

When it hurts... That's when i start counting, because that's when it starts to count.
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08 Jan 2015 22:29 #179324 by Lex
Hey bro yes training is back up I think I put on a kg or so feeling a lil shit tho
For some reason I find myself lost at this point...I still think abt her when I'm at work, at home, even sometimes at gym which is so messed up...I still can't picture her with someone else and more importantly I can't help but think I'll lose my mind and strangle the owe (it's happened before I saw her kissing another guy after we broke up at a club and I strangled him and thru him over the bar) anyway I was on tren back then so I use to be very Agro but in all honesty I can't blame a substance for my behavior...why the fuck am I so lost
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08 Jan 2015 22:35 #179325 by admin
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Lex wrote: ...I saw her kissing another guy after we broke up at a club and I strangled him and thru him over the bar...


I assume this happened the first time you guys broke up? Let me tell you something, the fact that she kissed another guy so soon after breaking up with you is proof that she doesn't give a shit about you, she never did and never will. I'm pretty sure she's got some other issues as well and you are far better off moving on as soon as possible, it's for your own good.
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08 Jan 2015 22:50 #179326 by FIllet
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It's a given she's had another squeeze from get go. Let the bitch go, she's not worth shit
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08 Jan 2015 23:06 #179329 by Mason Might
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Kg up! Nice Bro!
Keep up the training, its truly the best outlet for you right now...

Run a cycle man! (NOT TREN) :P :lol:

(obviously once you've had enough time to recover from the last one)

When it hurts... That's when i start counting, because that's when it starts to count.
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09 Jan 2015 08:22 #179342 by Furk
Lex, keep at it bro. Hit the gym HARD, make a new playlist to listen to while lifting to get you pumped, focus on yourself (your enjoyment with life, career, own goals & aspirations ect.) Go and treat yourself to a new pre-workout or something. Life's about you now bro.

That's what I've been doing recently. My test levels are less than a infant girl (will need to go on hormone replacement therapy, probably have to freeze some sperm while I still can), me and my girl of 5 years just broke it off, I have a incredibly stressful year coming up. You can make it through bro. If I can keep my head high - so can you!

You are going to meet the right lady one day, and perhaps so will I.

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09 Jan 2015 09:32 #179347 by Lex
No admin that's the scary part it wasn't after a early break up it was like a year after we've dated then broke it off nd she did that...
I was stupid to take her back a lot of my friends swore me for it and now that I think back it wasn't worth it...thanks admin ja I agree I knw she has her own issues and I just have to forget and keep moving foward

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09 Jan 2015 09:33 #179348 by Lex
Haha thanks fillet I knw I have too a lot of people said she's not worth all the time and effort so yes I'm trying my best to let go

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09 Jan 2015 09:35 #179349 by Lex
Time to tren mason might B) haha nah kidding ja I'll start a course in march I wanna try and actually wait till April because I might be going down to Cape Town for a few weeks if a new business deal comes into play so around march-April I'll start a new cycle..
Either npp and supertest or tren E and supertest

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09 Jan 2015 09:47 #179351 by Lex
Thanks furk an I'm sorry to hear about ur break up too bro... Haha ja I changed my protein and pre workout on Monday :P next I need to change my fucking emotions
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09 Jan 2015 10:43 - 09 Jan 2015 10:43 #179356 by Oupa

Lex wrote: ...I saw her kissing another guy after we broke up at a club and I strangled him and thru him over the bar...


Ya dude, my back still hurts. :P
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